February 7, 2012 · 52 Comments
I was resting in the shade of the portico when I felt an insect land on my arm. I swatted at the air only to see that it wasn’t a fly. It was my bracelet finally breaking its tubular bond with my wrist after an on-going battle with the threads of patience. It fell to the ground beside me, a forgotten reminder of a life which seems oh so long ago. I picked up the bracelet and climbed onto the roof of the University. I leant as far out as I dared and tied the bracelet off to a piece of protruding metal. A part of me would always remain at the University of Hargeisa.
I was given the bracelet by a girl; I can’t even remember her face now so much time has passed. It was in the last week of summer and the final days before coming to Hargeisa. I was hobbling around the United Kingdom on crutches wondering if I would be able to walk without them before the time to fly to Addis came about. It was a sign that something new was going to begin and a sign that something good was about to end. It was supposed to make sure I didn’t forget her; I can’t even remember her face now.
So it seemed somewhat fitting that when the end of the era, which that bracelet started, came about that the bracelet should disintegrate and be buried with the place in the past that the University of Hargeisa now plays in my life. Officially, I have left by mutual consent. It feels like the sort of mutual consent whereby one party consents slightly more than another because, despite all of the difficulties inherent in working in a young University in the developing world, I was enjoying myself.
I wasn’t particularly enjoying the red tape, enough to stretch around the globe two or three times. I wasn’t particularly enjoying politics or subterfuges. But I loved my students dearly. We had exams this weekend gone and I’ve just finished marking my students’ papers. I’ve described in earlier blogs the difficulties in guiding students to exhibit tangible progress in the language, I couldn’t be more proud at the results they produced for me.
One young lady was the only girl in my class. She was very shy for the first couple of months and it was a struggle to give her the attention she deserved in such a male dominated environment. Her mid-term was pleasing; she scraped a pass. I started to up the tempo with the class as a whole and focused mostly on their writing skills and in just two months she became one of the better students in the class. Her final exam grade is astounding. I walked past her this morning after the exam and she called me over and coyly gave me an envelope. It contained a laminated certificate which she had made for me saying I was the best teacher in the world. If I am the best teacher, she is the best student.
One interesting trend within the grades is how closely attendance and final mark are correlated. There are obvious exceptions where very talented students cannot be bothered to come to English class, although I don’t see the logic in this as there is a dearth of native speakers around Somaliland to have a conversation with. I had students arriving at the exam today who I had never seen before in class. Their grades were pretty poor. The students who attended 85% of my lessons were getting by far the best grades in the class; I must have been doing something right!
I was given a class of superstars. It struck me as an enormous piece of mismanagement as more experienced teachers should be paired with weaker classes to maximise improvement in a limited time. It proved enormously difficult to motivate the class to anything but writing. And then I was given a pet project. Another young lady from a different faculty was moved into the class because she wanted to take English, despite being of a University stage where students are usually finished with English. She had only just passed Pre-Intermediate and was being placed into an extremely competitive Intermediate class.
In just three months her writing improved so dramatically that I didn’t recognise her style as I marked the exam papers anonymously this evening. In three months she went from being a weak Pre-Intermediate student to a solid Intermediate student. It would take another three months of consolidation before she could move on to studying a more advanced level but I couldn’t be more proud of her improvement. Teaching is never so enjoyable as when you see a clear increase in your students’ capabilities.
I was surprised to see a lot of strong male performances as well with some students reaping the benefit of my rather too kind policy of allowing homework re-writes. Some students were handing in additional two or three pieces of writing a week which I was marking and advising them on. My class hit an average of 85% in the exam, given that I was probably the harshest marker in the University they should be really pleased with their achievements.
All-in-all I was totally satisfied with the way things were going with the students and I was developing some interesting new courses to run at UOH including public speaking, teacher training, English literature and I even submitted a proposal to run a short course on Somaliland’s place in International Law (my University background is in International Law). I hope these projects will get off the ground without me, the students would benefit greatly from the extra exposure to the language.
All-in-all I was totally satisfied, and then came the break-up. I will be the first to admit that I committed the most heinous crime possible. Or maybe I am being hyperbolic? There’s a fine line in Somaliland between law and morality. I would go so far as to say that a large proportion of people don’t truly understand either. From the shouts of gaal (infidel) on the street from adults as well as children to the almost daily mis-aim of stones in our direction it does seem that some percentage of the population has absolutely no idea what Islam stands for. But what I did was much worse than attempt to injure someone just for having a different colour skin or religion. I took my best thirty students out for tea and cakes at my own expense. In broad daylight. With three other teachers in attendance.
My thirty best students were all girls. I can’t deny that “best students” is a totally subjective term but there is a huge disparity in the amount of effort exuded between the genders here. A casual observation tends to conclude that girls work harder than boys here because in a traditional patriarchal society jobs for women tend to be restricted and therefore far more competitive. Those students of mine who never show up are probably already working in the family business. Moot point, I’m the teacher and I can say who my top thirty hardest workers are. Sure there are some guys amongst them but it opens a huge can of worms to mix genders in Somaliland. It’s better to drop those two guys who work hard and just invite the two girls who don’t.
We had a good time anyway, thirty of us in a nice hotel drinking tea and eating cakes. The girls spent most of the time teasing me for being bad at Somali. I should have teased them about their English. I got some pretty cool presents too, probably the only reason I became a teacher in the first place was to get gifts twice a year when semesters ended!
By Iain Bisset
Hargeisa, Somaliland
February 7, 2012
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As an educator in North America, I can tell you that you what you did would jeopardize your career even in North America. Taking students of the opposite gender to a hotel would get you fired—regardless of whatever explanation you might be able to give. Even though you might try to agrue that they are consenting adults it would still be considered very unprofessional. One of the most important rules of being an educator is never place yourself in a comprising situation.
You should have consulted with a collague or the university before having taken such a decision. My advice to you is to learn from the experience and never attempt such a thing again—even in Europe and North America.
Hold on Nora…he did say there were 3 other teachers in attendance so it wasn't so bad…give the guy a break!
Iain thank you for your letters from s/land!
I was just stating the rules—if you don't believe ask any teacher or professor in Europe and North America if they would ever think of doing the same thing.
It doesn't matter who else was there this is not acceptable behaviour for someone in a position of authority anywhere in the world. Is it appropriate for a doctor to take some of his patients all of the opposite gender out for coffee—no. Besides how do you know if the other teachers with him were not also men? How would that look?
Each profession has it's code of ethics and this is deeded unethical behaviour for many reasons. He is in a position of authority and it could be seen as abuse of authority.
Axmad take a hike you white man lover. People like you are how we get into the German man situation. All Nora said was that he did not take the same precautions that he would have taken in his native Europe. Wallah, people think it's all fine and dandy when a white man comes to Somaliland under the pretext of teaching and think they can let their guard down.
You think this guy is some kind of altruistic angel? He very well knows the social rules in Somaliland, how dare he ignore them? Now I don't even feel slightly bad that he kept getting rocks thrown at him or sworn at like he mentioned in his earlier post lol. Still cracks me up till today.
@Hawa, Came down. No need to be racist. Neither the children throwing stones nor Iain lack of good judgement is right. However, no need to get emotional and turn this to more then it is. Most Somalilanders prefer to do the right thing when faced with errors which can be managed properly? So please refrain from outright hostility. Especially since Iain did not do what the German guy did? Stop the exageration and over playing of events.
Wow see and there were people on here talking about Sharia law needing to be the law of the land *smdh*
Considering all the freedoms we enjoy in the west and how hard Somalilanders fought for freedom this is shameful indeed. I realize also that there are a few bad apples in every culture, but I hope you met a few decent people that made your trip worthwhile.
No one said anything about Sharia law—where are you getting this from?
Why is that anytime anything happens in a Muslim country people blame Sharia Law and Islam? Eduate yourself about Islam before you blame it, otherwise you just seem ignorant.
This has nothing to do with Islam. He would have lost his job anywhere in the world for what he did.
These types of rules are in place all over the world even in Western countries where I teach. We have a code of ethics and professional we must follow in order to sure both the students safety and our own. He violated an important rule and that is why he lost his job
I hope you are having a great time in Somaliland, people are generally courteous but be careful not to infringe the local customs and religion that would be unwise for a foreigner.
As a white teacher in Somaliland for the past 2 1/2 years I have to say Iain you were very foolish. I agree with Nora about your actions being inappropriate in east or west. Not only that, but you should know after being in Somaliland for a number of months that westerners need to adapt in order to survive here. It's not good enough to blame Islam or kids throwing stones, your actions were to blame.
However, what you did was not evil or similar to what the German man did so don't group every white person into the same bracket Nora. I hope your experience will not stop others coming but will encourage people to be adequately prepared culturally. If those coming to work in Somaliland understand the cultural expectancies but are not able to live up to them, they should not remain here.
Iain, thank you for sharing some of your experiences. You are right to say there have been bad things (stones, name calling, at times a judgemental attitude to westerners). However, in this occasion I feel you cannot blame Somalis, Somaliland or anyone else.
Forgive me Nora for using your name about the German man, I had meant to saw Hawa!
No wonder they call you GAAL, because you did not respect the local culture and the discipline of your job. Our people are welcoming people, but if you trespass the culture, you end up with rocks and well, may be something else, so get the hell out of our land.
I support Nora and Hawa, because they believe in ethics.
He is contributing to our society, so if he leaves Somaliland will you fill his place? I doubt it.
Omer, people often get called gaal here even if they do respect the local culture!
While I agree with you that this mans actions were wrong, I feel your bottom line conclusion is not based on ethics but on bitterness.
Nora's argument was very balanced and appreciated. However, yours and Hawa's seem tinged with bitterness and is NOT typical of most Somalilanders I have encountered. I'm guessing you both live in the west ;-)
Sorry but I think we reserve the right to be apprehensive about these people who come to our country given their track record. Sure, not everyone is like the German man but he has left an imprint on the minds of many because of his actions. It's not about being bitter, it's about safety. Better safe than sorry is what I always say.
Teacher
The word Gaal has two means in Somali context. First it is used to describe someone who do not believe the Islamic faith, as such it stand as UNBELIEVER and not necessarily an INFIDEL which is a wrong interpretation by the British occupiers in early nineteen century.
The second meaning is used for Camel (Gaal) mainly in southern parts. There is a city called Gaal-kacayo (Camel stand) in Puntland, there are also a whole clan in the southern part of Somalia called Gaal-jecel (Camel lovers) so Somalis use the word Gaal for both meaning.
We don't have other word to describe some one who does not acknowlegde our God.
Rhoda,
And Mr,Weerar, you should not forget that actually the second meaning of the term, ǵaal' is: a white person. So when a Somali says, ´gaal´ one may mean either a non moslem or a white person.
I did not believe Iain and I think he is fabricating that he took girls to a hotel while other teachers were present. Trust me the Somaliland police would arrest him before people stoned him to death.
I once hiring a hotel in Hargeisa and few of my female relatives wanted to visit me, guess what they had to ask…….marriage certificate or an elder.
If he did that, I now understand why kids are throwing rocks at him and elders are telling him to leave.
I would also recommend him not to return and forget about his "private school" perhaps it has other agenda. Who would trust a man with such values with their children and we know most whites don't care if the kids are male or female. Read about the Catholic church and their schools.
Somaliland should stop hiring "native" English speaking whites and should instead hire Indians and others who speak almost the same English with little accent.
Kayse, you are a sad sad man. I will leave it there.
Why you hating so called "Teacher". I'm sorry but Somaliland too often takes white men on welfare or little teens who want adventure as teachers without probably looking into their values and qualifications. I blame Somaliland authority and so called schools.
They need teachers from India, they are far better than those in the West. Indian teachers will not only teach our people English, they can also teach IT and mathematics.
I don't know why Somaliland is always sleeping and too preoccupied with people from the old colonial master aka UK. I say hell with them. Lets go to India, its closer, similar culture with many practicing Islam and their English is perfect. We don't care about accent, you want to learn English and grammar, communication, etc, Indians are well qualified and available.
We dont need whites, just because they have few more dollars than the average they think they can do as they wish. Hell no.
Indian teachers are a great idea. Kayse, what's with this change in attitude? Now if we can just get you off Ethiopia's jock you'll be alright :)
I have never met a white man on welfare or a little teen teaching in Somaliland. Maybe you mean Ethiopia Kayse?
Yes, Indian teachers should be valued and needed in Somaliland. Actually I agree that in many ways they are more useful than us 'whites'. However, the problem you and others are making in this thread (and others) is dismissing a whole race because of one persons actions. To dismiss people because of the colour of their skin is racism.
For more information on how to become a better Muslim check out this U-tube video by Sheikh Yusuf Estes ( a revert to Islam). Please check it out, to learn more about your deen.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pPgrR_fnRyQ
In the video he says that in Islam that "if somebody treats you bad treat them better. If somebody is harsh with you be soft with them."
Keyse what made you so sure that Indians won't do what a white man does here? They all want our women. I don't trust any foreigner with our girls. Even the Oromo and Tigrey next door. Don't trust any foreigner.
Lol. Yes Jama, all foreigners want your women. LOL
Iain Bisset has a lawyer in him more so then his teaching side. He seems to want to challenge authority. Maybe he should stick to being a Lawyer. Although Somaliland is gratefull to teachers who give them a invaluable asset they still need teachers who are professional and fair. That is the best life lesson to pay forward.
Name calling, racial insults, etc, Hargeisa, no London 2012. Ask most non-whites living in the uk and they all have shared experiences of racism. There are areas of many cities in the UK that non whites would be foolish to tread. So lets put it all into perpective, expat teachers experience a style of life in Somaliland that they would dream about in Europe, the respect and deference that somalilanders show them, can in turn "go to their heads", leading to a patronising attitude, that reduce Somalilanders and thier culture to seem childlike and backward.
I'd have to agree with Abdinoor on this one. Racism exists everywhere. Somaliland is no exception. Sure Somalis are apprehensive about having 'whites' on their land, and rightly so. They are still living the legacy of colonialism. I hate to admit it, but Kayse (and even Hawa) have a point. Often "Native English" speakers a.k.a 'whites' are recruited, with little to no teaching experience or even a TEFL/TESOL/CELTA certificate. Schools should be hiring individuals based on qualifications, and not skin colour.
What is wrong about a teacher taking out their students for a farewell dinner in a PUBLIC place?
You people act as if they were having full on s e x ual relations in public or something.
I brought Sharia into this because if you go ape shyt over a teacher having a public dinner with their students then honestly how far away are you from forbidding bras etc?
Why are you people defending racism or religous facism as a cultural right? The guy basically took his best students out to dinner in a PUBLIC place!
I dont know if my previous comment will get posted so lets try this again the reason I mentioned sharia is if you are against public meetings of different se xes from different cultures then how far will you go with the sort of strict bs?
Religious Facism????Like I said before educate yourself about Islam before blaming it, otherwise you just seem ignorant.
It has nothing to do with mixing of opposite genders from different cultures, but it has to do with a teacher—a person in a position of authority taking his students (all of the opposite gender) out to a hotel. That is wrong everywhere in the world period. You can't justify it. Don't twist this into something its not.
This whole thread is laughable. Yes, this man did a foolish action and should no longer be teaching at UoH. However, because of this so many of you are lumping a part of the world into the same bracket.
But, no, every white man is not like that German man just as:
* No, every Somali does not blow himself up killing men, women and children.
* No, every Somali does not capture disabled old women for a few $.
* No, every Somali man does not waste his few $ on his qat rather than feeding his family.
* No, not every Somali young person uses the night to get up to the things they can't in public.
I'm just saying that people should try to be a bit more objective in their thought processes. It is children and those with autism who have to always see things in black and white.
For more information on how to become a better Muslim check out this U-tube video by Sheikh Yusuf Estes ( a revert to Islam). Please check it out, to learn more about your deen. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pPgrR_fnRyQ
In the video he says that in Islam that "if somebody treats you bad treat them better. If somebody is harsh with you be soft with them."
We should avoid generalization as must of the worlds problems are caused by generalizations. As a Muslim I'm against all forms of racisms because my religion is against racism. As a Muslims were are taught to be kind and welcoming to people regardless of the way in which they treat us. If somebody treats you bad treat them better. If somebody is harsh with you be soft with them. This is the way of Islam. Islam also teaches that the simple act of smiling or a kind word to a stranger is considered charity.
The only way we can fight the stereotypes against our religion is by becoming more compassionate, kinder, humble people.
For more information on how to become a better Muslim check out this U-tube video by Sheikh Yusuf Estes ( a revert to Islam). Please check it out, to learn more about your deen. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pPgrR_fnRyQ
In the video he says that in Islam that "if somebody treats you bad treat them better. If somebody is harsh with you be soft with them."
Brothers and sisters until we begin to understand the true beauty of our religion—others won't. Be kinder and more tolerant like Islam teaches. The prophet (pbuh) said that "the best amongst you in Islam is those who have good manners".
To Learn more about "The character key to paradise" check out Yusha Evans (revert to Islam) U-tube video:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=huEa6lIWczk
Nora stop kissing other people's ass. You are insulting our religion of Islam by kissing ass. It's in our Quran kariim an eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth. Whoever wants to bad mouth us we'll mete the same fate to them. Islam is compassionate to those who deserves it and I don't think the West and Kaafir does at this particular moment.
Jama—Brother, you chose to say hateful words and like a true believer and follower of Islam all I can do is pray that Allah guides you to the truth. For the prophet Mohamed (pbuh) even prayed for his enemies and as Muslims we are taught to follow his example.
To show you how wrong you are brother about Islam the Surah you quoted was Surah 5 (Al Mâ'idah)
verse 45:
"Life for life, eye for eye, nose or nose, ear for ear, tooth for tooth, and wounds equal for equal." But if any one remits the retaliation by way of charity, it is an act of atonement for himself.
Therefore my brother mercy, forgiveness and kindness are valued more in Allah's eyes than revenge. So try and practice true Islam in order to be in peace with yourself and the world around you.
As for these 'whites' that you choose to generalize, remember that they are the same people who welcomed you to their countries, allowed you to practice your religion free and provided you with educational opportunities. Ingratitude is not acceptable in Islam.
Thank you Nora for your beautiful words. I am not considered a muslim but your balanced opinion and words set you apart. Thank you.
Your welcome—all I am doing is I am striving to practice Islam as it is truly taught. Be doing so I have found peace with myself and the world around me.
Also as for not being considered a Muslim—all a Muslim truly is –is a person who believes in only One God, and that he should not be worshiped with partners. So as long as you believe that then you are a Muslim.
May Allah reward you for the work you are doing in Somaliland.
Your sister in humanity.
Nora
@Jan
What is there in Sharia that seems to bug you to death? You come across as streotypical or plain ignorant, if you verse yourself in Islamic Sharia, Men and Women aren't allowed to intermingle in private nor in public, period. The reason is clear and self evident through temptation hence it's a no no.
Verse No. 53 of Surat al-Ahzab, or the Confederates (Interpretation of the meaning); "…for anything ye want, ask them from before a screen: that makes for greater purity for your hearts and for theirs…"
In explaining this Verse, Ibn Kathir (May Allaah have mercy on him) said: "Meaning, as I forbade you to enter their rooms, I forbid you to look at them at all. If one wants to take something from a woman, one should do so without looking at her. If one wants to ask a woman for something, the same has to be done from behind a screen."
Abd al-Fattaah says:
I work as the head of department in one of the big companies. For a long time I admired one of my female colleagues, not for her beauty, but for her serious attitude towards her work, her intelligence and her excellent achievements – in addition to the fact that she was a decent and modest person who focused only on her work.
This admiration turned into attachment, and I am a married man who fears Allaah and never misses any obligatory prayer. I expressed my feelings to her and she rebuffed me. She is married and has children as well. She sees no reason why I should have any kind of relationship with her, whether it be friendship, as work colleagues or based on admiration… etc. Evil thoughts come to me sometimes, and deep down I wish that her husband would divorce her so that I could get her. Continued….
I started to put pressure on her at work and put her down in front of my bosses. Perhaps this was a form of revenge on my part, but she accepted it with good manners and did not complain or comment. She works and works; her performance speaks of her quality, and she knows this well. The more she resisted me, the stronger my infatuation grew.
I am not a person who is easily tempted by women, because I fear Allaah and I do not overstep the mark with them and go beyond what is required by my work. But this woman attracted me. What is the solution?… I do not know.
Is the mixing which we see nowadays in our universities, market-places, work-places and family and social gatherings, taking place within the limits referred to above? Or are these places filled with transgressions in terms of clothing, speech, interactions and behaviour? We see wanton displays of adornment (tabarruj), not proper covering; we see fitnah (temptations) and dubious relationships, with no good manners and no conscience and no covering. We can conclude that the kind of mixing that is happening nowadays is unacceptable even to those who approve of mixing in a clean atmosphere
It’s about time for us to recognize that mixing provides a fertile breeding-ground for social poisons to invade and take over our society without anyone ever realizing that it is mixing which is the cause. Mixing is the prime element in this silent fitnah, in the shade of which betrayals erupt, homes are wrecked and hearts are broken. So Iain, it is for you to understand we live in an Islamic country and what you did is unacceptable by any standard, I appreciate your honesty but what westerners don't understand or rather don't want to undersand it's better follow the rules or face the consequences.
We ask Allaah to keep us safe and sound, and to reform our society. May Allaah bless our Prophet Muhammad (PBUH).
Jama—Brother, you chose to say hateful words and like a true believer and follower of Islam all I can do is pray that Allah guides you to the truth. For the prophet Mohamed (pbuh) even prayed for his enemies and as Muslims we are taught to follow his example.
To show you how wrong you are brother about Islam the Surah you quoted was Surah 5 (Al Mâ'idah)
verse 45:
"Life for life, eye for eye, nose or nose, ear for ear, tooth for tooth, and wounds equal for equal." But if any one remits the retaliation by way of charity, it is an act of atonement for himself.
Therefore my brother mercy, forgiveness and kindness are valued more in Allah's eyes than revenge. So try and practice true Islam in order to be in peace with yourself and the world around you.
As for these 'whites' that you choose to generalize, remember that they are the same people who welcomed you to their countries, allowed you to practice your religion free and provided you with educational opportunities when you were a refugee. Ingratitude is not acceptable in Islam.
MashAllah Nora I can I agree more JazakAllah Qeeyr! I just will add another verses of surata Ma'idah verses 5;8
O you who have believed, be persistently standing firm for Allah , witnesses in justice, and do not let the hatred of a people prevent you from being just. Be just; that is nearer to righteousness. And fear Allah ; indeed, Allah is Acquainted with what you do.
So because you couldnt control yourself a woman who didnt want you should be punished by not being able to socialize with other men and women in public?
All I am saying is if its a public place what is the fri gging problem! If you want sharia fine but lets have two laws if you are sooo hung up on that stuff then let people judge you for it.
We can have two cafes one where men and women talk and have coffee and one where there is a wall between the two se xes because like bashe said our men cant control themselves they might spontaneously jump to fits of rape and violence because they dont know how to express affection for women or even how to control their natural feels. Rolls my eyes
give me a break!
yes , men can't control themselves why the hell is there so much rapes and sexual abuse then lol but not all men kkk. Allah knows the psychology of men and the chemistry of people thus asked men to lower their gaze from looking or staring at the beauty of women whether the are covered or not and asked women to cover their beauty but this is a personal relationship between the person and Allah and CANNOT be forced on people. Every-one is responsible of themselves. And in Somaliland there is hardly any segregation between men and women and in fact they mix a lot in public places, restaurants, work places; Somaliland is more cultural than religious. but when it comes to booking hotel together is not allowed. But in this case of Iain it is more to do with maintaining professionalism and not getting too personal with students and this is the same everywhere even in the west but here in Somaliland on top of that people like the German man cheated and went to extreme level simply because people trusted him and were too lenient so now people have even more negative thoughts of foreigners mingling or getting too involved with native women especially when they are here to teach and have an authority and professional position.
Most of the above comments say a lot more about those who wrote them than about Ian. It shows total ignorance, intolerance, xenophobia, lack of respect for others, in short lack of good characteristics. There is nothing wrong with a teacher taking his female students to a hotel for a dinner. Somali men do it all the time with Somali women. Unrelated men and women chew qat together at private homes. There is alcohol there, a lot of class A drugs, and every other illegal thing under the sun. Sorry to break it to you but there are even pr*stitutes in Hargeisa like any other city. So stop acting as if Somaliland is a sinless righteous place.
Abraham that is OK in your country Eithipia were they rent hotel rooms with girls with the oldest profession in the world , but what people are talking is not the conduct of individuals but the conduct of a TEACHER and that behaviour is unacceptable all around the world no matter where you are. Besides the private life of Somalilanders was not the discussion, we where talking of Ethics and professionalism period.
Come on Abraham, this is not about what people do behind closed doors you are missing the point.
But I don't know why some are making it seem as if Somaliland is like saudi Arabia lol come on people the Somaliland I know is far from religiousness or harsh religious enforcement and is rather very lenient but it's quite cultural and this issue of Iain here is nothing to do with religion. Personally in this topic Nora, Marwo and Teacher makes a lot of sense to me
I reckon this whole story is made up you mention how you had only one girl in your class and how it’s intimidating for girls to be in such a male dominated environment but all of a sudden your top 30 students happen to be girls!!. I would suggest two things here: As soon as you come back to London find yourself a girlfriend :p , and always get someone to proofread your articles just to make sure that you don’t have silly contradictions.
Peace!