November 10, 2010 · 38 Comments
HAYESTOWN (SomalilandPress) — I am a Somali mother of one, from Uxbridge West London, who has not written anything this long since leaving university nearly six years ago. Please stay with me while I explain the title of my article and the events that led me to write my first blog.
One Sunday afternoon last month I went shopping with my son to nearby Hayes, which is a west London town in the London Borough of Hillingdon with a diverse population. However, when you look closely the different communities of Hayes are often segregated, hardly mixing and only socializing with their own. What is more saddening is the fact that my community is even more segregated on the basis of gender, political, tribal and so on. 
While on the bus and approaching our stop we heard familiar loud music and singing coming from the town centre, as I approached the stairs, through the window of our bus I could see the common bright colour dresses of Somali mothers and their children. Before I could make sense of what was going on I was literally chasing my son down the stairs, across the zebra crossing, before ending up in the mother of all Somali mother parties in Hayes town shopping centre.
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I have only ever seen Aar Maanta in one of his videos, in a song called Saafi on the Somali channel Universal TV. For some reason, it was the only Somali song my son used to love watching. Perhaps it was the same reason why the mothers and their children at the event knew his songs so well. Nevertheless everyone seemed care free, dancing, clapping while singing along or videoing the joyful moment on their phones.
I was glad we arrived in time for the rest of his show. Unlike current Somali singers Aar Maanta looked comfortable singing live, sharing jokes with his audience and the group of traditionally dressed children that accompanied him. However, it wasn’t long before someone tried to disrupt our innocent family fun and turn it into a religious issue.
There was an elderly Somali man going around the crowd, blackmailing the mothers and pleading with them to stop their “haraam” forbidden activity. This was a test in which Aar Maanta came through really well. In between songs he directly addressed the old man “it is not forbidden to be happy, if you’re not happy with us you’re free to go elsewhere.” In no time the embarrassed elderly man disappeared. In my opinion this man and other disruptive men who always cause problems at Somali events are unhappy people who cannot see other people happy and progress.
This event was part of Hayes Town Festival organised with the help of Sahan Society (a Somali mother and children centre in Hayes.) Hence, the large number of mothers and their children present. However, I could see more and more shoppers of different ages and ethnicity joining the street party, enticed by the cosmopolitan mix of Western and African sounds created by Aar Maanta and the diverse members of his band. In uniting us regardless of tribe, gender and age, Aar Maanta and the organisers of that event achieved what many of our politicians and community leaders could not achieve for many years. This is what integration was all about.
Later that day, after going home as a new fan, I found numerous articles about Aar Maanta online, most of which surprisingly were written by none Somalis. For example, Marloes Stofferis of STARAFRICA.COM called him A Somali Culture Shaper in London. Judging by his performance and the reaction of his audience that day I had to agree with her.
I would like to add in his support that Aar Maanta’s music is for the present as his name suggests (Mr Today in English.) It is modern Somali music to be proud of and to share with others. As a Somali mother, that day was a liberating experience and a culturally proud moment, where members of other communities saw us in a more joyful and positive light at least for thirty minutes.
You can watch the Arr Maanta Hayest Town Event here.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mwmPwcRpWQI&feature=player_embedded#!
**Somalilandpress would like to thank the writer of this opinion Aaasia Ali and Arr Maanta who is one of a kind performer**
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Arr Maanta is a positive role model for our youth.
Cheers
Mohamed
We should have more mothers writting on this site.
Cheers.
Mother Aasia Ali thank you for sharing your thoughts and appreciation with us.
salamu aleikum
"it wasn’t long before someone tried to disrupt our innocent family fun and turn it into a religious issue."
"….this man and other disruptive men who always cause problems at Somali events are unhappy people who cannot see other people happy and progress."
Aasiya, when we are saying our Islamic religion is a complete way of life, it means that there are do's and don'ts and in other words Halal and Haram.. and music is Haram. having said that, as a Muslims unlike the other religions around the world, before we do or write about any thing we should know what is the Islamic ruling on that specific matter… if you are claiming that music is Halal or it is Halal as long as you are happy then this is not the Islamic religion we know… no one in the Somali community ever claimed the Music is Halal despite being part of pre-islamic Somali culture, even most somalis who listen to music or sing knows.
whether we like it or not, every thing we do should have daliil from our religion, unless you are promoting so called muslim moderate life style.
just for the record, before you call me some names here is what i am : a somali muslim and i don't belong to any muslim groups whether it is talibanism, alqaedism, alshababism etc.
p.s : I am pleased to see somali mothers writing and i am encouraging that, but we should stay within the Islamic limits.
wasalam aleikum.
she must be joking i listen to music but i never call it halal some of these people are so brain washed and do not even known i remember when dressed in islamic way was blessing but now you got this author and some of these other writers all are quick to jump to say i am moderate muslim people do wrong knowingly and unknown but it gets worst when we try to justify it the west's game is working muslim are fighting.
There is no moderate Islam or extreme there is only Islam " do not let them fool you or even try to school you May ALLAH show us the right way k mohamed iam just like you
"do not let them fool you or even try to school you" how funny you are quoting from Bob Marley yet you are against this mothers for appreciating Somali music. Hey Abdi your argument is twisted mate loool
I agree its hypocracy right there. Against a sister in favor of Somali music yet you argue against "music" and quote Bob Marley, who thinks Ethiopia's Empreror is God.
I'm telling you Somalis just say for the sake of arguing.
Nomad you are pointless here.. i bet you don't even read the article or you are here just for the sake of ana waa ikan, as your friend mentioned.
maybe you should read from the start and understand. i said i listen to music and iam not with or against her for doing the same but iam against her for justifiying that it is not wronge in islamic way
get it nomad? kayse u 2
You seem to indorse the notion that a bunch of ill informed men have the right to wrongfully interfere and interrupt the events of members of the public who are harming no one and committing no crime. Your suggestions are even more absurd given the fact that the event we are talking about was held in a democratic rules based society like Britain. I am not saying music is halaal or haraam, but what I am saying is that in the West no one has the right to go about interrupting others' affairs. If people want to preach about Islam and the Shariah, there are appropriate venues for that and no one is stopping them form doing so. All I what to say is just fellow the norms of the society you live in, and in the West that means acting lawfully and civilly.
thank you Abraham you took the words out of my mouth! what world are we living in somalis judge too much these days.
To enjoy good and forbid evil without harming any one is permissible and even required from each one of us, those people we are talking about are muslims… beleive what you want, we dont have the right to force you….follow the norms of the non-muslims as you wish, but don't say we don't have the right to tell to our beloved mothers and children what is right and what is wrong as long as we have daliil from our religion.
to set the record straight, yes i don't believe that no muslim individual has the right to interfere physically the activities of other people.
K this article was not about wether music is halaal or haram, YOU ARE SEEF LABOOD. There was really no need to turn cultural articles into religion, just like Asiya said. You need to relax pal and let people be free if not go and live in Kismayo there you can force people what to do…
seef labood!!!! you are making us laugh… you need to understand before you comment… i am not forcing any one to be Muslim and i don't have the right to do so.
when you are Muslim, you have to follow the Islamic rules that based on quran and sunnah.. IT'S JUST THAT SIMPLE, so you can't say "oh no this is not a religious matter"!!
I do not see any daliil or hadiis that supports yr claim of music being haraam, it is ironic that someone who might not even prey this morning will tell u , ooh that girl is not wearing hijaab or enjoying a music.
I do not see any daliil or hadiis that supports yr claim of music being haraam, it is ironic that someone who might not even pray this morning will tell u , ooh that girl is not wearing hijaab or enjoying a music.
tsalamu aleikum walaalayaal! just look at the picture these are happy muslim mothers and their children, we are not Saudis though we should never oppress our mothers and their children, what ever happened to the love?
but Akhi these women were not in a club or shiisha cafe or marfish they were just having a nice family in a shopping centre look at the picture they dressed all decent if you want to preach do it at the right places like Abraham said go target those that need it
Wow! Men!………lol, sorry just a little annoyed. To all the Muslim brothers who commented on this page here is little info: At 5 my father took me to a SESAME STREET CONCERT in , of all places, Jeddah Saudi Arabia. Talk about double standards. If it's held in Saudi it's all good, but if this is enjoyed in the western world, then it's a path to evil/distraction. One of the prestigious Islamic Universities in the world is in Egypt, yet do not get me started on the type of ENTERTAINMENT that s held there. This was for family, why is it that MOST of the parents were mothers!?!? Where is the father? You want to teach your children YOUR true belief and understanding of Islam, then you should have been there.
To this eduacted mother, do not change anything, and may you inshallah enjoy many more days like this with your children.
lolz Samira, so you are saying as long as it happens in Saudi or Egypt it is ok!!…. sorry but walaalo but wallahi that is too silly WHEN DID WHAT PEOPLE DO IN SAUDI OR EGYPT REPLACED THE QURAN AND SUNNAH??? if u want just do it but plz don't try to justify it… or bring your daliil.
K. walaal you haven't read the article fully or maybe you understanding of the English language is limited, this is not about Music been haram or halaal, it is about an event and the wonderful work of aar maanta, stick to the issues pls and stop preaching to us, maybe we know more than you and we are adults we know right from wrong
Hassan iyo Mohamed it's not my intent to preach, but understand how ADULTS have taken the issue of a harmless gathering of children and mothers into a discussion about what is halal or haram. Mind you this is a place to exchange and discuss such issues, but sometimeswe take an event that should make us happy and politicize it. Mohamed never said it was okay in Saudi or Egypt, but before we critisize what happens in London get the MUSLIM nation's houses in order. I never blame Hassan, nor do I think my way is right walaloo. If you felt disrespect that was not the intention. Peace
the difference is in the Western world they have the liberty to interfere and cause chaos, but the sad thing is they only do that to their own people, they never go around telling other people what to do. In muslims countries there is much more sin going on but it is underground, they wouldn't dare interfere because they will be punished in a harsh way, your point is understood and taken walaal Samira :)
Point understood walal. :)
People lets give credit where credit is due.. This lady wrote a wonderful article on what her eyes seen and that is at the end of the day we Somalians can come together or we just love to party…
You can't be Muslim if the only contribution you are making in an event is disruption and causing disturbances of peace. Plus it is not in our tradition to cause ill to women and children, except just standing by them and keeping them safe from harm. Being "Somali" does not excuse people from being charged with harassments, so call the police on people whose only intention is to be joy killers and drag everyone else down including Allah.
Istaqfurullah, brother no one can drag Allah the Almighty down. I believe that was a typing error on your part.
lol @ 'typing error'. Very true brother.
@mukhtar Quote : "You can't be Muslim if the only contribution you are making in an event is disruption and causing disturbances of peace.."
this is very funny.. another alshababism style who gave you the right to say who can be muslim and who can't?? you must have a concrete daliil, everyone of us can not talk about this stuff..only the 'ulema.
by the way i don;t know where all this xamaasad came from, the tobic was not about alshabaab.
Waryaa K.Mohamed shouldn't you be praying and reading the Koran instead of Policing Somalilandpress, you know it is Haraam to be reading this kind of aricles and if the topic was not Alshabaab why don't you talk about the wonderful work of Aar Maanta???
Dude southern Somalis understanding of Islam is the radicalism we see in the south today. They can not understand how we are liberals and open minded. That is why Al Shabab has strong support amongs them and in Somaliland our Sheikhs and religion preachers are like open minded men such as Sheikh Dirir, who is loved throughout the world and visits the West to deliver dawah openly and proudly.
We are civil and we understand Let there be on compulsion in a religion and they don't. They forcing people to worship things al shabab created and they trying to force the people of Somaliland to be with them, they are people who only understand force and thats why dont have a government because force never works.
Somaali maxey Japaan uga hadlaan marka China laga sheekaynayo! This article was never meant to be religion issue, we should be discussing the wonderful work of Aanisa and Aar. Instead because of ignorant guys we are here debating something irrelevant. At least we are having a civilised debate unlike Hiiraan.com. Bravo Somalilandpress for brining this wonderful article.
@Nomad Quote : "…we should be discussing the wonderful work of Aanisa and Aar. Instead because of ignorant guys we are here debating something irrelevant…"
is it that hard to understand? walal… may be to comment in somali will be good idea for you,right?
it is too sad if you call talking about your religion irrelevant and those who brought up ignorant!.
Islam is a complete way of life and every aspect in our lives has its islamic rulling no matter how big or small it is.
well done Aar Maanta and Anisa, I am a big fan of your unique work. Stay positive and original…
what with the censorship ???
WHEN TALKING ABOUT DEEN ALWAYS BRING PROOF FROM THE QURAN OR HADITH. DONT BRING YOUR PERSONAL OPINION. YOU SHOULD ALWAYS SAY ACCORDING TO THIS HADITH OR ACCORDING TO THIS AYAT …. (MOST OF ALL LETS SEEK KNOWLEDGE)
Sister Asiya, On behalf of Sahan I would like to commend you for writing such an excellent blog. I can totally see that the event meant so much to you.
Hayes Town festival has been going on for years but sadly enough there has never been a Somali performance which is a shame considering the number of Somalis living in that area. We wanted a Somali performer who was able to appeal not only to the Somali Community but to a diverse audience. AAR MAANTA was just the man for this! Aar Maanta and his band blew us (the crowd) away with his performance and his eclectic music was flawless. The gig was very well received. In short, AAR Maanta has done us proud! Thank you.
The young Aar is of course the future of our FANka,and Aasiye here is generous enough to share here appreciation and of course somaliland press have shown genuine editorial judgement to showcase the piece.
g h wiilwaal