June 23, 2012 · 19 Comments
While on a long walk with my uncle on his first visit to London from Nairobi he was surprised to see so many young Somali boys with lowered jeans that exposes their bottoms and patterned baseball caps smoking openly outside a busy indoor Somali shopping centre. As he passes one boy just stares at him with a smirk and my uncle holds his gaze on him. The boy gazes back and my uncle then smiles and says, “You’re too young to intimidate me. Should you not be channeling your efforts to other things?” The boy did not reply and we walked on.
On the way back my uncle had clearly been affected by the boy and he asked me, “Why are they proudly on the streets? Where are their parents? Why are they so disgustingly exposing their bottoms?” Then before I could reply he concluded that, “There must be Shaytan (the devil) in England that the rains can’t wash away.” With a giggle we made our way home.
A week later an aunt called me to visit her home urgently. It is always urgent with Somali aunts but this time her voice seemed to confirm the claim. When I arrived I was introduced to a friend of my aunt whose son was in custody awaiting sentencing for possession and supplying class A drugs in London. This worried mother sent her son to his father in London because he was becoming unmanageable and as far as she had known he was attending college and planning to go to university and not committing the crime that now inevitably was going to send him to prison. I explained that the crimes her son was accused of were too serious for him to not get a non custodial sentence and this was confirmed by his solicitor’s letter. Whatever the length of time, he was going to prison. Nothing that the mother or anybody else could say or do would be able to interfere with the national sentencing guidelines that deems possession and sale of class A drugs as too serious for anything other than imprisonment.
“Muxuu waxan u sameeyey? Maxaa ku kalifay? Walaahi inanka Ilaahay iyaa I’og in aan isku dayey,” cried the mother. “Dhibaatada inankasi noo gaystey Ilahaay ayuunba og.”
It would have been difficult to answer this distraught mothers question had this been an isolated incident but unfortunately for a community already facing social exclusion and poverty in Britain, their woes are compounded by a large number of their young men entering criminality and then the criminal justice system as a consequence. This is not to say that all young Somali men are criminals but to acknowledge that a large percentage of them are been lured into criminality for many different reasons.
Somali youth crime is now a global issue. Wherever Somalis have settled in the West, youth crime is present. The Sun newspaper in August 2011 reported that nearly a third of young criminals who have served in Feltham Young Offenders Institute in West London, which is one of the top youth offender institutions in the UK were born outside the UK. There were Jamaicans, Afghans and Nigerians who served their time there but topping this shameful list were young Somali offenders. Many in the community took offence with this data arguing that some Ethiopians and even Eritreans claim to be Somali when seeking asylum in the UK but the reality is that even if this was the case, it is an undeniable fact that many young Somalis are languishing in facilities like Feltham because of their actions. I put the community member’s concerns to a former Feltham inmate who is now married and living in London with his young family.
“Somalis in Feltham are close and at the time I was there, there were a lot of us,” said the former inmate who did not want to be named. “Most were there for drug dealing, violence and even sexual assault. There were some African Muslims but they never claimed to be Somalis and even if they did we’re not stupid we would know.”
The widely publicised European Court of Human Rights ruling that is now blamed for allowing dangerous foreign criminals to remain in the UK was initiated and given in favour of two prolific Somali serious criminals, Abdi Samad Adow Sufi and Abdiaziz Ibrahim Elmi, who had their planned deportation to Somalia on the orders of the British government halted by the Court which argued that deportation would breach their human rights. This case and others as well as the growing prison population, clearly shows that Somali youth crime is not a conspiracy but a reality that the Somali community as a whole must come to grips with and help tackle.
The price of Somali youth crime is severe and has wide ranging implications for everyone. For the individuals and their families the loss of liberty and lives through violence is the obvious one. Wasted potential is another. However for the community it continues to fuel the stigma, stereotyping and discrimination many of them already suffer at all levels of society which compounds their social isolation and developing inter-generational poverty.
Somali Culture and crime
The terms Somali and crime are becoming interchangeable in many right wing newspapers and blogs in England today. It misleadingly, when combined with over two decades of civil war, gives the impression that the Somali culture celebrates or at least, tolerates violence and deviance. However, this false assertion built on dangerous stereotypes could not be further from the truth.
Looking at the Somali youth offender statistics now, it could be hard for anyone to understand that in the Somali culture which is strongly based on the Islamic values of honour, honesty and integrity, criminality has always been a shameful taboo. A taboo that if committed even for necessity, led to collective familial and even tribal stigma and in the most serious of cases, the ostracising of family members.
“I once stole some pastry from a shop in Mogadishu as a dare and when my father was told he marched me back to the shop, made me apologise and then in front of the neighbours broke of a branch from a tree and made me almost bleed every letter of the word sorry,” remembers a pensioner in Bristol. “It was a horrible experience that I felt I left behind but when I asked to marry my father still worried about the incident and the refusal it could brings from the family I sought to marry a woman from.”
“There are good and bad families in Somali culture and nothing in the middle,” said Abdi Mohammed, a London businessman. “If the family is seen even to this day as loud, illiterate and problematic it is hard for them to earn the respect they would need to hold their heads high in the community. Potential suitors for their daughters would be deterred; the Dowry payment for marriage reduced and in some cases families would refuse to marry from good families with problem individuals. This is a great shame and it can be brought on by just one stupid act from a family member.”
“Too many youngsters smoke weed on the streets openly today and many more sell it,” said a local imam in Bristol who did not want to be named. “In Somalia, Vice or Balwaad in our language, was done by only a minority and in secret. Selling it? Not only is it a crime here but always unacceptable under any circumstance in our culture.”
What is obvious from all of this is that crime and even vice, like most other groups, is abhorred by the Somali people as it not only offends their culture but also destroys their own standing within society. None of the young former offenders I spoke to have a family member with a criminal record in the UK. So why with such a strict culture that would even devalue the price of a potentially brilliant female within the family’s dowry, are Somali youngsters today committing crimes?
Somalis have a very patriarchal culture.
Traditionally Somali young men wherever they were and still are carry the hopes and dreams of their families on their shoulders. They are the standard bearers and future leaders of the family and even the whole tribe sometimes. It is they who give away their sisters to another family for marriage in the absence of their fathers if they are responsible enough and it is they who carry on the family name long after their sisters have married into others. They are obligated to be the protectors and breadwinners by their religion and community members even in the Liberal Western nations. This is an enormous task for an individual and expectations are always high. However, unlike their young sons who are growing up in the developed world today, their father’s grew up in the relative peace of their homeland sheltered by a communal culture that sought to educate and protect them from vice and criminality. They grew up in homes mainly consisting of extended family members who strives together to equip the young men of the home with the skills, education and advice they needed to be able to fulfill their future roles as leaders of their own homes and communities.
“We were not the richest family but we lived together as one. All three generations,” remembers one man in a coffee shop in Bristol. “My grandma used to teach me the Koran, dad used to help me with maths and my uncle used to teach me about cars. For most children in my generation we had a guided, well structured childhood where we were told that only education could enrich us.”
“Even orphans were integrated into the wider family network and the family had to simply work together to survive and protect its name,” adds another man sitting in the next table. “Families used to be proud of their academics and children were pressured to compete and succeed. If this was not for them, in many cases, families would raise funds to open a business for the young men or directly employ them. Everything was done to make sure they succeed and honoured the family name.”
“Divorce and family breakdown were alien concepts that only happened to bad families,” continued the first man in the coffee shop. “The religion and culture promoted strong families and this protected most of the children from my generation from the negative effects of it.”
All the mentioned support and the need to promote and protect family honour may have helped their fathers succeed in Somalia and in some cases in the West, but the tragedy today for young Somali offenders is that, they are still expected to become leaders of their community and carry the family name proudly into the next generation with very little or no support at all.
Young Somali men, unlike their fathers before them, have very few role models at home and in the community. The male figures in many families who should be passing on advice, skills and support have disappeared and the expectations of leading their family in the future still looms over their heads. This great expectation without the necessary support has driven many into resenting the Somali culture and adopting deviant subcultures that provide them with the status and materials they crave.
“It is hard to do well in school when you have very little support at home and in school,” said a reformed former youth criminal. “You come home, too many kids, mums stressed and life is just tough you get me. You want to look bling on road, link girls and yeah get a good job in the future. But all these are just not possible sometimes when you are in our situation.”
Peer pressure and continuously evolving youth culture further complicates things for young Somali boys because in the absence of a strong family, a cohesive community and structured local support in areas such as education and employment advice which most of their parents benefited from in Somalia, they like most young people go through a period of exploration and experimentation. This creates enormous tension within the conservative families and the wider community and these young people if they refuse to obey and change their ways, are then negatively labelled and sadly many go on to fulfill the prophecy of the label.
The most alarming thing of all is the explanations of Somali male youth crime provided by some members of the community and the families directly affected. According to members of this group Somali youth crimes rise can be attributed to greater western freedoms given to children, legal restrictions on parents physically disciplining them, the breakdown of the family and cultural and religious values. When challenged to discuss their role in all this, it is shocking how many parents and community leaders did not acknowledge the parts they played and continue to play as individuals and organisations.
The need to be a real man and an asset to the family name is not lost on young men in the Somali community who are involved in crime. But many struggle to succeed legitimately to achieve their goals and ambitions as a result of poor education and very few real opportunities. This drives many who feel inadequate and have very little family support to seek deviant cultures and activities that give them the status they crave but find hard to attain legitimately.
“Everyone I have known wants to be legit even the most dumbest and violent of street thugs,” said another young Somali reformed offender. “But how do you do it? Who will help give me a job in a nice place? I am not saying everyone can have it all but you know when you are been treated different.” It is this feeling of difference and the racial and class obstacles to achieving his goals starting in school that have made him enter crime in the first place. He fondly remembers that in his time as a drug dealer he had a life that most ordinary people would never dream of let alone have. Nice hotels, cars, girls, parties and travel. However, although he does not regret the past, he has set himself up on a different path and is now in education in a UK city.
One of the key draws of criminality for young men is the career structure it offers. Contrary to popular believe, many still feel crime pays and many more make it pay. Whereas in a legitimate job ones chances of attainment and progress may depend on links, education, class and colour, the criminal career ladder is far more meritocratic. Status, wealth and responsibility always depend on performance and even those with the deepest underworld connections do not survive if they fail to meet targets. In addition there are many role models and a very supportive environment where instead of been labelled a runner, employee or drug dealer the aspiring young criminal is given membership of the “family” and all the benefits that come with it.
Many young reformed offenders interviewed felt that while criminality was a way of both securing their material and social status, they could not hide the fact that it was dangerous, sometimes violent and in the end a cat and mouse game where all were caught and many served time in prison. This is even more regretful for some of these young men because now “not only have you shamed yourself, your family and all your distant relatives in some dusty Somali village but no one would give you even the ugliest of their daughters” a young man who was recently released laughed.
It is wrong for some members of the community to suggest that the Somali youth criminals have lost interest in their culture, values and religion. Many love it still but are disappointed by the enormous expectations placed on them with the minimal support they receive. This is proven by the fact that a few interviewees entered criminality as a result of a desire to alleviate their family’s poverty by buying the designer goods they wanted with their own cash. Even though it was ill gotten, the idea was firmly within the Somali culture as these young individuals because of their silly pride and a need to be self sufficient decided to enter low level criminality which escalated with time. The reality is far from abandoning their cultural heritage; many young Somali men seek its protection, acceptance and education. They want to succeed first and foremost for themselves and their families but they want the cultural advantages their parents had growing up in their home country.
“Nobody really wants to be a failure or hidden when relatives come to visit like some kind of disease that your parents don’t want spreading,” said one reformed youth juvenile who is currently studying at a university in London. “I understand that I have lost some standing in society but I am working hard now to legitimately succeed so that I can make up for some of my past mistakes.”
When listening to sociological explanations of ethnic female success in comparison to their male counterparts, I am always astounded by the lack of real understanding of it. We are told that society has improved and greater equality within it has allowed women to succeed and that this has had a profound affect on the fortunes of young ladies today. Or that they are not violent or devious enough or have too many female hormonal obstacles safeguarding them against allowing teacher expectation in schools to hold them back. Well some of these may be true in some contexts but what is almost always never said is that because of the breakdown of their cultures and values and the supportive extended family that helped to keep families together, young ethnic women have realised that unless they empower themselves they may end up like many single mothers today within their communities. Somali girls are no different and the thought of been an illiterate, unemployed and unsupported single mother in the UK like many of their mothers were and still are is a key drivers of their success today in education and to some extent in professional employment.
Unlike their sisters, the breakdown of the family and the collective nurturing culture in which their fathers grew up in upon their arrival and during their stay in the western nations, has resulted in many of Somali young men losing their way. The crisis in young Somali male identity today is having the most devastating impact on this community. But those it hurts most are the young men who are expected to adhere to the strict Somali culture through the acquisition of education and skills that will allow them to fulfill their roles as leaders of their homes and communities without any real support from those who expect most from them.
The multi-agency approach taken by most Youth Offending teams is effective but cannot alone reduce or end reoffending especially where Somali criminals are concerned. However, they are not helped by a Somali community that just wants to criticise its youth in public meetings with the Police on Somali television networks. It seems that these critics are always looking up to the authorities for solutions and wishing for the problems to magically disappear. If they keep doing this, they will not only sacrifice social credibility but they will lose their sons to the more supportive, understanding street families (criminal networks).
The importance of culture in addressing Somali youth crime is understood by families who regularly send their wayward children back home to the peaceful parts of Somalia or neighbouring East African States such as Kenya for Dhaqan Celis (Cultural re-education). However, while sending them back to these places may make some understand and appreciate their luck in life and come back reformed many others just enjoy the extended holiday fully funded by their parent’s remittance money and even spread their wayward ways to the decent locals. Instead of Dhaqan Celis what’s desperately needed is Dhaqan Bar (learning of culture) while in their homes in the West. It takes a community to raise a child and it is the collective responsibility of the Somali community to help rehabilitate and inspire their children and future leaders. It is no good just looking after your own as just one simple criminal act by an individual child can reflect badly on an entire group when it hits the news headlines.
Community leaders continuously argue that they are hampered from providing the services required on a permanent basis by a lack of resources and facilities. Chief among this is the lack of community centres run by local groups for local people. However, a building is just a man made structure and even if the community leaders acquired it they would have to be mature and intelligent enough to let it be run by young role models within the community that can provide a non judgmental service that would attract and sustain the interest of the target group.
A golden window of opportunity may open up for the Somali community members and groups that want to help educate and rehabilitate their young male lost members out of a life of crime if the Justice Secretary Ken Clarke’s rehabilitation revolution comes to fruition. However, any rehabilitation programme cannot ignore the important role culture plays in a young Somali man’s life. Rehabilitation does not happen over night but one of the quick victories an understanding of their culture can provide for the Somali community is that if expressed and taught well to the statutory bodies, it can help to tackle the inequity in the justice system that they feel sends too many of their young men to prison. If they can be financially rewarded for it while rehabilitating their wayward young men under Clarke’s proposed Payment by Result scheme, it would be even sweeter.
Rehabilitating young Somali criminals will not be easy and nor is there a single magic bullet to deter those on the verge of entering the criminal justice system. An understanding of their culture and support in fulfilling its expectations of them will certainly be a good start. However, without strong families, parental engagement and involvement in a child’s life and a strong network of community support young Somali men will not only continue to enter criminality but they will abandon an enduring and increasingly hypocritical culture which expects so much from those it give so little to.
Liban Obsiye
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Tags: Gangs, Jamaica, London youth, Somali culture, Somalia
What the author of this article is saying is there are large number of somali criminals here in the west when compared to other groups of the society.
What he has talked about is actually true, problems do exist but right now on a large scale.
Smoking, weed been unemployed, trousers down, that's total shame, No has an excuse to make them selves look like a stupid, and having a low life. I am telling you, you don't need a male figure in your house, to instruct you on what to do and what not to do, it's all about you, you have eyes and ears to say hey this looks dangerous or this is not right path to go down, you look around you every morning either when going to college or univerisity on the Tube in london how many people are cumuting to working, how many are white how many area ethnic community, somalis are almost invisible, because of the problems talked about in this article. The sooner young people realise they are on the bottom shelf of this society the better they can adjust to their lives. In my house there is not male head but took the responsibility to set a good example for my 3 younger brothers to show them, where the right path is bearing in mind both of my parents don't hold GCSE let alone a degree , Go to school, get your GCSEs then go to college get your A/Levels, get a part time job, and go to university, and show your parents you are going to be the first person in the family to go to university and soon your younger siblings will follow suit. now you are both economically active and contributing to society, as whole, and you making your parents years of investment worth., Always tell your younger siblings education education education, respect for parents respect for parents never reply a word to your parents always just do what they tell you. Final thing be connected to allah. and you will never see a problem most of the time. Insha allah.
Please don't shame the somali society by doing something stupid but rather prove those people that somalis are better than that. Young people like us should be reflecting a better image of our society.
Masha Allah, very well stated. According to census, African immigrants are the highest educated people in the West, but these educated African immigrants are majority West African. Proving that even though alot of West Africans went through genocide and civil wars, but their children are doing very well in schools, and alot of times these Africans do not have two parents at home. therefore, there shouldnt be an excuse as to why Somalis youth shouldnt be doing as good as other African immigrants.
Maan sha allah , I will share your comment with my children. Credit to your mother, she may not educated at a GCSE level but she has a PhD at being an excellent mother cause she raised you well.
I can say a very large proportion are from the North, and Puntland, mainly because men are busy chewing that green stuff, and has dumped their responsibility on the women alone, wake up ! before it is too late!
Due to the prelonged war most of the women who raise these kids are uneducated and uncultured. Most of the women from the South are known to have no real Independence or even say in their home. Therefore, when they arrive in this country they end up making decisions that renders them and their children without any real support or education. South Somali men are known for their prefrence to keep their women docile and uncultured. Mainly due to their want of several marriages and wild view of the female role. Whilst, Somalilanders are known to allow their women more Independence and even encourage their pursuit of education or work. In Somaliland a man wants to chew khat with his wive and be catered to whilst giving her freedom. In the South the women are domestic and docile. This is fact.
For your information, not all South Somali men are abusive, and you shouldnt be making such a generalised ignorant statement. And for your info, alot of South Somali parents are very educated considering Syad Barre was one of the first African leaders who gave women the rights to education, for free, I know plenty parents who are educated and are from Somalia. Also, you are wrong when you say Somali women are domestic and docile, if you go to Mogadishu right now you will see majority of the people olding small businesses at the suuqs are indeed women. Btw, a muslim who indulges in bowlad is really nothing to bragg about.
Also many of the women the Somalia men marry are very young with many children. Whilst Somalilanders are known to marry very much later.
Marrying young is a good thing what are you on?
It's an Islamic custom to marry young and so that the young man has responsibilities.. And it's healthy stats prove it..
Desiring to marry later is some western ideology to promote "Enjoy you're youth! Responsibilities are for the old"
You bring shame to the name of the Somaliland people. This is not about Somaliland vs Somalia, it's about the problems facing Somali youth irrespective of their land.
May Allah SWT fill our young brothers and young sisters and our hearts with Islam and bring us all onto the right path! And succeed in this life and the next! Ameen
Asalamu Alaykum my beautiful beloved brothers and sisters!
@ Haruun, Get educated first. Seek knowledge whether you are a boy or girl. Getting married before you even finished basic high school or colledge is the real shame. Stop using religion. If you read the quran it advices us all to seek knowledge and take marriage & procreation seriously. Our deen is perfect but our men take what ever they like and leave the rest. Balance you're arguments and make change now.
Men from Somalia are mostly seen as wmanisers. Due to their pretence to be muslim, even though they can't even pray properly. Nor they have real education of their deen. They assume the role they deem preferntial to them. Thus, women and children suffer. Whilst, Somalilanders are much more conservative and mostly intune with their partners needs. Thus, they don't treatment as possesion. despite their habits they respect their women.
I Jama you idiot we are not talking about Somaliland or Somalia, Puntland. We are talking about the problems somali youths are facing today.
@ Bashir…wasn’t you who said no one should be calling others names. I gave my opinion on the state of Somalia men today not when Syiad Barre existed. Stop lieing to yourselves people. The fact is if the father isn’t their and the mother is not able to be nothing more then a maid. Coupled with the fact that the women aren’t respected by our men then they have no chance of raising them. Denial is what you are suffering.
Well Jama before criticizing anyone, fix your grammer and pronouncation. I Jama speak like an intellegent person your full of anger and rage Jama. Take it easy and go to anger managerment to deal with your anger that have you against somalia or anybody who stood up to you. I Jama you are a bully. I hope you get well soon because you are not well, and you need professional help.
Woow. Somalia men are in so much denial. Tell… Pray tell me??? Why are so many of you're women subjected. i.e raped feelhumanitarian as though they rather leave then stay….. Are Somalia men so desillluioned or messmerissed by their own liees. Womens and Children suffer the most in Somalia then any part of the world…… Is this more information then you can take? Do you need another 20yrs to realise you're humanitarian dis-achievements. Or do you need more time to realise what is wrong? Whilst most of your're women are more happy to admitt defeat to the international world and refugee camps they could get to. What is yoiu're take? How are women doing in Somalia????????……..
Puke…… vomit in disbelieve. Somalia men feel good about the state of women and children in Somalia today. What does this tell you??????
@ I jama
Please don't hijack the purpose of the article this author has outlined the problems that young Somali men face in the west where ever they are from- Somaliland, Somalia, kililka shanaad, Djibouti Nfd. AS a concerned Mother who is raising up young boys in UK I would like to hear from the comments of the young men who were raised in the west and their experience.
I am sending your way du'a for your boys to become exemplary Somali citizens and Ummah. I can speak for myself. Though I go by the moniker "Jabuutawi", I know next to nothing about Djibouti except the occasional summer trips. I grew up in the United States. In fact, I was barely a year when we arrived here. I have always had male figures in my life but the true hero was and is mother. She did all the heavy lifting. She cared for us, raised us and, if need be, disciplined us. We studied hard, kept away from trouble (even though we had East-African gang) in my neighborhood – mainly comprised of misguided Somali, Eritirean and Ethiopian "homies". Mother constantly kept us busy with school work, Qur'an studies, and extracurricular activities in High School immensely helped my brothers and I stay away from vice. I think we turned out just fine, praise be to Allah.
The key thing is stay involved at all times with your kids' lives. Ensure at the age of 8/9/10 they go to a madarassa (on weekends) or have someone come to them at home and teach them about our faith. Islam is more than just a religion, it is a way of life. I am not saying I am a perfect Muslim (as some of you can attest when I interject qabil in the conversation, LOL) but I strive to become one. May Allah guide us all to the righteous path.
Thank you Jabuutaawi, Maansha Allah.
Dear brothers and sisters first of all salaam 2 u all. I would like to give my opinion on this topic by stating that it makes me so sad when i read about young somali youths imprisoned in british jails for years with no future. I speak on this topic as a young somali male who was raised in the uk as the son of a seaman and who has also served 4 years in prison. The most fundamental things in most of these youngsters lives is the loss of a strong family unit, that is primarily what makes or breaks you in life. Here in the Uk in the somali community there is no unity, i say this as i have lived here all my life and have witnessed firsthand the destruction of the family unit that thread what bonds us all together and keeps us focused. There are lots of reasons why these kids commit crimes, most drug related crimes are either greed poverty or as part of a gang or working for others and being manipulated by older and craftier criminals. Crimes such as sex offences and robberies are completely unacceptable and deserve the most severe punishment, also the area in which these youths live and their friends and the level of crime in the neighbourhood has a great impact on their actions.